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    lksfo;u ;wfu;u ds iru ds ckn lHkh tuoknh 'kfDr;ka bl ckr dks eglwl djrh gS fd ,d U;k;laxr lekt cukus ds la?k"kksZ dks uqDlku igqapk gS- izfrxkeh rkdrksa dks vikj ykHk gqvk gS vkSj nqfu;k tgka Fkh ogka ls o"kksZ ihNs pyh xbZ gSA bl ,d /kqzoh; nqfu;k esa oS'ohdj.k dh izfØ;k esa gekjs ns'k esa Hkh izfrxkeh iqu:RFkkuoknh rkdrsa etcwr gqbZX gSa] ftuesa fujadq'krk dk tcjnLr vk/kkj gSA lrh&leFkZu] eqfLye efgykvksa ls xqtkjs] Hkrsa dk fNuuk] ckcjh efLtn dk fxjk;k tkuk] vYila[;dksa dh gR;k,a vkfn lkekftd ifj?kVuk,a lcds lkeus gSA lkoZtfud {ks= dk futhdj.k] mnkjhdj.k dh izfØ;k ds rgr lkezkT;oknh ns'kksa dh dsUnzhd`r iwath ds fy, viuh vFkZO;oLFkk ds }kj [kksyuk vkSj vkRefuHkZjrk o jk"Vªh; laizHkqrk dks folftZr djus dh rS;kjh rd reke ckrsa crkrh gSa fd geus jk"Vªh; vkUnksyu ds nkSj esa tks izxfroknh turkaf=d laLFkk, cukbZ Fkh mUgsa xaHkhj /kDdk yxk gSa bl lanHkZ esa ,d gkfu dk lnek lHkh lPPh turkaf=d 'kfDr;ksa us mBk;k gSAbl lnesa ls xqtjrs gq, eq>s viuk fiNyk ^uqDlku* vkt Hkh ;kn vk;k oSls gh tSls vkt dh leL;kvksas ds lkFk ihNs dh leL;k,a] detksfj;ka vkSj xyfr;ksa fn[kbZ ns jgh gSaA vkt u, fljs ls jk"Vªokn] lekt lq/kkj&vkUnksyu] tura= vkfn dks vf/kd lkjHkwr cukus ds fy, vc rd oafpr rcdksa dh lmlesa lh/kh Hkkxhnkjh ds ckjsa esa lkspk tk jgk gSA blh rjg eSa Hkh bu izfØ;kvksa dk fgLlk gksrs gq, ,d L=h dh rjg cgqr dqN lksp jgh gwaA vktdy eq>s ,slh Hkkouk ?ksjs gq, gS tSls esjh lcls dherh phtsa pqwjk yh xbZX gSa] tSls pqipki ,d cM+k /kks[kk esjs lkFk gqvk gSa- tSls esjs fo'oluh; yksxksa us eq>s viwj.kh; gkfu igqpkbZ gSAS bl eu%fLFkfr esa cgqr ckj U;k; ds nks mi;qDr iSekus fn[kkbZ ugh iM+rs tks esjh gkfu dks gkfu ds rkSj ij lkfcr dj ldsA

    ,d viwj.kh; {kfr ds ckn balku ds gkFk esa bruk gh gS fd og U;k; dk ,slk Lo:i gkfly djsa fd gkfu dks gkfu dh rjg ^crk;k* tk ldsA og ^fn[kkbZ* tk ldsA Bhd oSls gh tSls fdlh fiz;tu dh gR;k gksus ij U;k; mls okil ugha yk ldrk ysfdu ;g lkfcr dj ldrk gS fd mldh gR;k gqbZ vkSj bl mn~ns'; ls gR;k dh xbZ vkSj blus gR;k dhA cgqr ckj ;g lkfcr gksus ij Hkh fd gR;k gqbZX gR;kjs ^lansg* dk ykHk ikdj NwV tkrs gSaA eq>s Hkh yxrk gS fd esjh tks gkfu gqbZ og rks gks pqdhA laHkor% lcwrksa dh vi;kZIrrk ds dkj.k gkfu igqpkus okys Hkh NwV tk,axs] ysfdu esjh tks gkfu gqbZ mls ^gkfu* ds :i esa igpku fy;k tk;s] bl fn'kk esa gh eSa dqN iz;Ru dj ldrh gwWaA

    ;g lgkfu cgqr cM+h gkfu gSA ,d rjhds ls lcls cM+h ysfdu ;g vewrZ gSA tSls vflafpr tehu dh d`f"k {Kerk dks izekf.kr djuk eqf'dy gS] blh rjg ekuork ds bl misf{Kr {ks=e es agqbZ gkfu dks fn[kuk Hkh vklku ughaA ekuork dk ;g {ks= u dsoy misf{Kr gS cfYd blesa tkuk Hkh oftZr gSA ;g ,s ,slh laosnu'khyu Hkwfe gS ftls ------------------- dg dj NksM+ fn;k tkrk gS vkSj fQj mldh fuxjkuh i{k vkSj foi{K nksuksa djrs gSA rks ,slh txg esjh gkfu gqbZA vc ,d eqlhcrtnk L=h viuh bl ^gkfu* dks crkuk pkgrh gSA ,slh L=h ftlds ikl fo'ys"k.k dh leqfpr Jsf.k;ka ugha gS- lacað {ks=ksa dk cgqr O;kid Kku ugha gS] foðkuksa dk /;ku [khapus yk;d izHkko'kkyh Hkk"kk vkSj dgus dk

    tc eSa vius ledkyhu fe=ksa ds chp gksrh gSa rc eSaus bl gkfu dsk cgqr rhozrk ls egll fd;k gSA os lc fiNys tekus ds ckjsa esa ckrs djrs gSa] ;kfu muds fodflr gksus dk tks le; Fkk ml ckjsa esA mlesa nks phtksa dk ftØ vDlj gksrk gSA ,d rks xksf"B;ksa dk vkSj mls tqM+h phtksa dk elyu lkewfgd :i ls NK=ksa ds pqukokesa dke djuk Fkk ;k ;wa gh fe=ksa dh fu;fer yach&yach xksf"B;kaA ml le; dh cglksa ds ckjsa esa] dfo;ksa vkSj jktuhfrKksa ds ckjsa esa] fQYeksa ds ckjsa esa- vius NksVs&eksVs lkgfld dkjukeksa ds ckjsa esa viuh cgqr lh ckrsa crkdj os galrs gSAS nwljh pht tks oks crkrs gSa] oks gS vius ,dkra ds ckjsa esa elyu muesa      dls dksbZ dgrk gS fd oks 'kke dks unh fdukjs cSB tkrk vkSj cM+h nsj rd cSBk jgrk Fkk nwljs fdukjsa fprk,a ty jgh gksrh Fkh vkfn- dksbZ dgrk gS fd dSls oks Åaps Vhyksa ij cSBdj lw;kZLr ns[krk Fkk- dksbZ vius jkr jkrd rd ikdksZ esa cSBus vkSj ?Kweus dh ckr djrk FkkA dHkh dHkh vius nwljs dkeksa ds ckjsa esa crkrs gSa fd dSls mUgksaus ,d ^fQYeh Dyc* cuk;k- dksbZ crkrk gS fd geus dSls ,d ;qok eap cuk;k FkkA os fdlh ykbcszjh dh ckr Hkh djrs gS tks ,d jSD Hkj fdrkcksa ls 'kq: dh xbZ FkhA ;g jSD ,d nksLr ds ?kj esa j[kh FkhAS /khesa&/khes gqvk ;g fd lHkh yksx dksbZX u dksbZ ubZ fdrkc tqVkrs jgrs vkSj lc ,d nwljs dks i<+krs jgrs FksA bl rjg og jSd fdrkcksa vkSj fopkjksas ds ysu nsu dk ,d eap cu xbZA muesa ls dksbZ crkrk gS fd eSa mu fnuksa 'kk[kk esa F ;kvk;Z lHkk esa tkrk FkkA dksbZ crkrk gS fd eSa mu fnuksa QYkkus laxhr* laxhr lEesyu esa x;k FkkA ogka eSaus dqekj xU/koZ ;k vehj [kku dks lqukA dksbZ crkrk gS fd eSa Qykus esys esa x;k- rhufnu ogka jgkA dksbZ crkrk gS ,d gksfe;ksiFk ds ;gka daikmaMªh djrk Fkk- fdlh us cpiu esa Hkkx dj etnwjh dk vuqHko dek;k FkkA dksbZ crkrk gS fd eSa jkr 10 cts ^ml* lM+d ls xqtjrk FkkA ;gka ihiy d uhps dcz ds fljgkus ,d ihj cSBk gksrk Fkk- eSa dHkh&dHkh dqN nsj mlds ikl cSBrk FkkA dksbZ dgrk gS fd eSa dbZ ckj pkanuh esa dfczLrku esa cSBk jgrk FkkA dksbZ dgrk gS fd eSa ^mu fnuksa* lLrs miU;kl ysdj lqcg gh ikdZ esa pyk tkrk Fkk- lkjs fnu Nk;k esa gjh ?kkl ij i<+rk jgrk FkkA dHkh fdrkc fljgkus j[k dj lks tkrkA dksbZ dgrk gS fd eSa jkeyhyk ns[kus ogka tkrk vkSj ckjg cts ds djhc ykSVrk FkkA dksbZ ukSaVdh ns[kus tkrk] dksbZ jkl] dksbZ Lokax ns[kus tkrkA os crkrs gS gksyh ds fnuksa esa os dSls Vksfy;ka cukrs FksA dSls mUgksaus Hkkax [kkbZ vkfnA dksbZ crkrk gS mu fnuksa esa Qykus v/;kid ;k Qykus fopkjd dh laxr djrk FkkA vkiki dky ds viusvuqHko os lqukrs gSa- dSls mUgksaus ipsZ fudkys] if=dk fudkyh] muds gkWLVy esa Nkis iM+s] dSls os jkr dks ipsZ VkbZXi fd;k djrs Fk vkfnA mudh ckrksa esa cgqr ls uke ifjfprksa dh rjg vkrs gSa & usg: t;izdk'k ukjk;.k] fcuksck Hkkos] yksfg;k] ih-lh-tks'kh] ch-Vh-vkj vkfnAS

    cgqr lh dEcf[r;ksa ds ckotwn mudh ;s vktkn nqfu;k Fkh vkSj ;g ,d cgqr cM+h nqfu;k FkhA mlesa os drkZ FksA eSaus ik;k fd esjs fy, bl reke nqfuk ds njokts can FksA eSa viuh fdlh lgsyh ds ;gka Hkh ugha tk ldrh Fkh] jkr dks LVs'ku ij] dfczLrku ;k unh fdukjs Hkh ugha] esjs fy, vkt Hkh ;g lkspuk vlaHko gS fd eSa ,d ikdZ esa ysVdj i<+ ldrh gwa ;k lks ldrh gwaA reke lHkk,a vkSj lEesyu] iqLrdky;] pkSjkgs vkSj os cktkj tgka ;qok gksrs yM+dksa dh xksf"B;ka terh gSa% fdlh Vh&LVkWy] s mudh cgwr ;kn vkbZA os T;knkrj eqlyeku Fkha & nqjnkuk] lkfcj] uqtgr] Qjkuk] Qjtkuk] gqLuvkjk] lyek] "kgk;nk] vQljtgka] luksoj] lqjS;k] utek& muds [kksus dk lnek ,d ckj fQj nqxquk gksdj lkeus vk;kA irk ugha mu ij muds ijfokjksa ij D;k xqtjh] os vc dgka gSA jkeiqj dh yM+dh ;k ckjkcadh dh yM+dh fudkgds ckn fdl 'kgj esa gksxhA ;s lgsfy;ka ,slh yM+fd;ksa dh rjg ;kn vkrh gS ftufd lkFk dksbZ 'kgj ugh tqM+k gqvkA cl tSls os iwjh nqfu;k ds vanj xqe gks xbZ gSaA

    esjs ledkyhuksa ds ikl muds vius 'kgj ;k xkao dh Le`fr;ka gSA os vius bykds ds eksM|+ksa dks vc Hkh I;kj ds lkFk ;kn dj ldrs gSA fdlh iRFkj dks] fdlh nqdku dks] fdlh cl LVSM ;k jsyus LVs'ku dsk] 'kgj ds fdlh xq: ?K.Vky dks] fdlh&fdlh dLckrh dykdkj dsk] fdlh unh dks] fdlh [kaMgj dks] os vc Hkh;kndj ldrs gSa ysfdu tc Hkh eSa vius 'kgj ds ckjsa esa lksprh gwa ,d ijk;uiu eglwl gksrk gSA eSa vc ml 'kgjdh bekjrksa dk LFkkiR; ns[krh gwa vkSj lksprh gwa fd bl 'kgjus eq>s dHkh ugh viuk;kA

    ftl dkWyst esa eSa i<+rh Fkh] mldk uke ^vCnqYl xYlZ dkWyst* FkkA ogka ,d rLohj yxh Fkh] mlesa fn[kus okys 'k[l dks ge ^ikik fe;ka* dgk djs FksA ikik fe;ka dh ekSSr ij ogka ,d 'kkslHkh HkhgqbZA ysfdu vki ;dhu dhft, tc eSaus og 'kgj NKsM+k] mlds cgqr cjl ckn eq>s irk pyk fd ^ikik fe;ka* vly esa 'ks[k vCnqYyk FksA mUgksaus d'ehj dks dSls tEgwjh fganqLrku dk fgLlkcuk;k vkSjcM+kHkfwfe&lq/kkj dkjxkj s cgqr ckn esa irk pykA rks ,slh Fkh esjh csj[kjh] ckgjdh nqfu;k ls vkSjbldh iwjh laHkkouk,a Fkh fd eSa fcuk bl rF; dks tkus ftanxh xqtkj snrhA esjk 'kgjgfLfr;ksa dk 'kgj jgk gS oks rehtksa&rgthc dk ,d uewuk jgk gS ogka ,d cM+h e'kgwj ykbczsjh gS- vktkn ykbczsjh] jkgh eklwe jtk ds miU;kl esa vkus okyk] 'keu'kkn ekdsZ Hkh ogka gS tks eSaus vkt rd ugha ns[kkA ogka ;wukuh bykt dk dkWyst gs- ogka cnzh ckck dk etkjg S- mu fnuksa ogka eq'kk;jksa dh /kwe gksrh Fkh- ysfdu ;s lc users esjs fy, ugha FkhA gekjh ;wfuoflZVh dk rjkuk Fkk ^;s esjk peu] ;s esjk peu- eSa vius peu dk cqycqy gwA* eq>s bldh /kqu vPNh yxrh Fkh- ysfdu eSaus bls dHkh xquxquk;k ugh] lp dgwa- eq>s bldk vFkZ dHkh le> ugha vk;k vkSj vc blds dqN dkj.k Hkh esjh le> esa vkrs gSA

    esjh nqfu;k ,d fofp= nqfu;k FkhA ftl ?kj dh ?KqVu ls yM+ds ckgj Hkkxrs Fks vkSj egfQysa tekrs Fks ;k vdsys HkVdrs Fks] ml ?Kqu esa gh eq>s 24 ?kaVs jguk gksrk FkkA esjs 'kq:vkrh 22lky bl rjg xqtjsA ?kj dk dke jdrs gq, i<+us tkuk vkj fQj ?kj dk dke djukA Ldwy&dkWyst esa Hkh tSls ?kjesjs lkFk pyrk FkkA eSa vius 'kq: ds 22 o"kksZ ds ckjsa esa tc lksprh gwa rsk ;s xqyke ds thou ds 22 o"KZ FksA gekjs fy, nksLr 'kCnoftZr FkkA lgsfy;ksa ds ?kj ge ugha tk ldrs Fks] f[kM+dh ls ugha >kad ldrs Fks- tksj ls ugha gal ldrs Fks] viuh ilan ds jax vkSjdiM+s ugha igu ldrs FksA tc esjs ledkyhu fe= ckgj dh nqfu;k esa vius iSj tek jgs Fks] vius O;fDrRodh lcls vge [kkfl;rsa fu[kkj jgs Fks rc eSa >kM+w&iksaNk dj jgh Fkh] dks;ys rksM+ jgh Fkh] NksVs HkkbZ cguksa dks laHkky jgh Fkh] muds iksrM+s /kks jgh FkhA ml le; eSa ,d u f?Klus okyh ns'lh lkcqu ls fFkDDV diM+s lkQ dj jgh FkhA tc mUgksaus usg: ;k t;izdk'k ukjk;.k dk Hkk"K.k lquk ru esrc eSa twBs crZu ekat jgh Fkh vkSjtc os viuh xksf"B;ka tek jgs Fks eSas ?kj esa xkyh&xykSt lqu jgh FkhA eSa ,d fiVh gqbZ] Mjh gqbZ yM+dh blh rjg mPp f'k{Kk ik xbZA eSaus ,d-,- ikl dj fy;k] cl ;gh ,d deky gSA cpiu ls ysdjtoku gksus ds o"kksZ rd tSls eSa ,d [krjk eksy fy;s jgh] ekSr dk [krjkA eSa lgh&lyker ml mez rdigqap xbZ ftl mez esa lh/kh gR;k dk [krjk de gks tkrk gSA bllsigys ds o"kksZ esa eSa dHkh Hkh ekjh tk ldrh Fkh D;ksa\ ;g er iwfN;sA ;g lksfp;s fd gekjs ;gka gjizkUr esa yM+fd;ksa dks vusd rjhdksa ls ekjk tkrk gSA blds vykok ^gekjs ;gka yM+fd;ka cq[kkj ls ej tkrh gS] ihyh iM+ djej trkh gSA mUgsa ekjs tkus ds HkkSaMs rjhdksa ds vykok cgqr ls lE;] [kkeks'k vkSj dkjxj rjhds gSA

    tc esjs ledkyhu cPps ls toku gksus ds le; dh ckrsa djrsz gSa rks eSa viuh nklrk eglwl djrh jgh gwaA bl xqykeh dks bruh f'kn~nr ls eglwl djrh jgh gwa fd mlls iwjh f'kn~nr ds lkFk uQjr dj ldwaA tks volj eq>s ugha feys muds dkj.k esjk fdruk uqDlku gqvk] D;kbl ckr dks le>k tk ldrk gSA D;k vki le> ldrs gSa fd 22 lky dh mez rd eSaus vka[k mBkdj bl nqfu;k dks ugha ns[kkA u eszjk dksbZ peu Fkk u eSa dgh dkcqycqy FkhA vly esa eSa fdlh lH; lekt dh ukxfjd ugha FkhA eSa mu djksm+ks cnulhc yM+fd;ksa esa Fkh tks ,d ?kqVu Hkjs ?kjesa /kqavs ds chp vius fodkl ds lcls egRoiw.kz o"kZ [kks nsrh gSA bu cnulhcksa ds ikl [kkus ds fy, ,d mez rks gSa gees djksM+ks rks ,slh gS ftUgsa [kkus nsus ds fy, dqN Hkh le; ugha feyrk] tkscpiu esa gh ekjh tkrh gSA yM+fd;ksa dh e`R;q nj vkidks ekywe gh gksxhA rks bl rjg eSAus vius 22 o"kZ fcrk;sA ogka gj pht dh deh Fkh [kkuk] diM+k] dkih&fdrkc] ysfdu lcls T;knk deh Fkh I;kj dh vkSj ,d pht gesa [kwc feyrh gS uQjr vkSj mis{kkA ogka tSls esjs gksus ls uQjr Fkh] esjs pyus&cksyus ls] esjsj'kjhj lsA gkeksj vusd vfHkHkkod] mud ukrs&fjrsnkj] vM+kSlh&iM+kSlh lHkh ,d nwljs dks rlYyh nsrs ^^pyks ;s Hkh bZ'oj dh nsu gSA** ,slk ugha gS fd ml le; dh dqN vPNh Le`fr;ka u gksa] os Hkh gSa avkf[kj ,d xqykHk Hkhpkan rkjksa ijutj Mky ldrk gS] pqids&pqids vke ds ckSj dh [kq'kcw ys ldrk gSa] ikuh dk Lokn ys ldrk gSA

    ysfdu vkt eSa ftl pht ij ckr dj jgh gwa] og gS le;] ;kfu bu 22 o"kksZ es eq>sa vius fy, tks le; feyk] og cqr de FkkA bruk de fd cl ftlds lkFk jgrs gq, vius vius balku gksus dk Hkze cuk jgsA bu 22 lkyksa esa fNis le; dks vki fdl rjg ukisaxs\ ;s fdlh ds Hkh lkekftdhdj.k vkSj O;fDrRo izkIr djus ds o"kZ gksrs gSa bu o"kksZ esa fdrus volj Fks tks esjsledkyhuksa dks feys] eq>s ugha feysA mu voljksa esa fNih fdruh laHkkouk,a Fkh] tks O;FkZ gks xbZA vkSj vki lef>;s fd laHkkouk,a voljksa ls cgqr vf/kd gksrh gSA fdlh ds ikl vxj 100 :- dk uksV gS rks mlds ikl chfl;ksa fodYigS ysfdu ftl vkneh dks 100 :- feys gh u gks] oks u dsoy 100 :- ls oafpr gksrk gS] cfYd mlls tqM+h chfl;ksa laHkkouk,a Hkh mlls fNu tkrh gSA voljksa vkSj laHkkoukvksa dh ,d rkjrE;rk Hkh gksrh gSA ,d volj dk bLrseky djus ls nwljs voljksa ds feyus dh HkhlaHkkouk,a curh gS vkSjbu voljksa esa fQjubZ laHkkouk,a ekStwn gksrh gSA rkstc eSa le; dh ckr dj jgh gwa rks O;FkZ gq, o"kksZ dh la[;k dh gh ckr ugha jg jgh]vkxs izkIr gksus okys o"kksZ dh Hkh ckr djjgh gwaA gkfu dsoy orZeku esa ugh gksrh ml gkfud h rkjrE;rk Hkhpyrh gSA bl rjg eq>s le; esa Hkkjh ?kkVk gqvk gSA lHkh xjhcksa dks esjh rjg ;g ?kkVk mBkuk iM+rk gS ysfdu ogka Hkh yM+ds vkSj yM+fd;ksa dk vyx&vyx gksrk gSA oafpr gksus dh ,d cgqr xgjh Hkkouk le; ds ?kkVs dks fn[kkrh gSA vyx&vyx lkekftd {ks=ksa esa laca/k dh izd`fr ij Hkh ;g vlj Mkyrh gSA dHkh&dHkh dqiks"k.k dk f'kdkj cPpk ftnaxh Hkj mlls eqDr ugh gks ikrk] [kSjdHkh&dHkh rks og thfor Hkhugh jg ikrk] dHkh vkxs py dj og dqiks"k.k ds izHkkoksa dks nwj djus ds pDdj esa csMkSy gks tkrk gS] dHkh dqiks"k.k dsoy 'kjhj  dk gh ekeyk ugh jgrk & cqfð vkSj O;fDrRo dk ekeyk Hkh cu tkrkg SA rks brus reke [krjksa ls xqtjus ds ckotwn eSa gwa fd viuh ckr dguk pkgrh gwaA vkids le; esa viuk le; feykuk pkgrh gwa ysfdu vkidks yxrk gS fd ;g ?kkVs dk lkSnk gSA vly esa esjs le; dk eryc Hkh ?kkVkgh gSA eqw>ls lgksnj laca/k cukus okys dks Hkh ;g ?kkVk dbZ rjg ls izHkkfor dj ldrk gSA mlds vusd fo'ks"kkf/kdkj fNu ldrs gS tSlsa jktk jkeeksgu jk; ds fNu x, FksA vkSj mUgsa tkfr ckgj dj fn;k x;k FkkA vxjog bl ?kkVs dks ugha ckaVrk rks mldk viukle; [kafMr gh jgsxk D;ksafd ekuotkfr reke Hksnksa d ckotwn ,d v[kafMr bdkbZ gSA gekjk lekt ftlesa cqfu;knh bdkbZ O;fDr dkx ugha ifjokj dks ekuk tkrk gSA ml lelt esa ifjokj esa ca/kh xqykeh dks le>s fcuk] mlds lexz izfrjks/k ds fcuk dksbZ lexz n`f"V ugha ik ldrkA os yksx tks igys ls gh ;g Kku izkir dj pqds gSa vkSjfQjHhk vfopjy cus gq, gS]a] xqykeksa d le; Esa fNih U;k; psruk vkSj MSeksdzlh dh ekax dks cgqr dke djds vkadrs gSA

    ,d ckr ;g Hhk gS fd vkids fo'ks"kkf/kdkjkksa vkSj esjs volj fNuus d chp dksbZ lh/kk dk;Z&dkj.k laca/k u Hkh gks] dksbZ izPN= laca/k rks vo'; gS vkSj bls le>uk [kqn vkid fy, vifjgk;Z gks tkrk gSa eSaus lh/ks ns[kk gS fd L=h ds le; ds vusd o"KZ iq:"kksa ds fgLls esaz pys tkrs gSA ,d fdLe dk^lkbQfuax flLVe* gekjs lekt esa gS tSls ,d vkneh ds 'kjhj dk [kwu nwljs vkneh ds 'kjhj esa mrkjk tkrk gSA ;kfu ,d gh izfØ;k esa ,d vkneh ds 'kjhj ls [kwfu fudkyk tk jgk gS vkSj nwljs vkneh ds 'kjhj esa Mkyk tk jgk gSA ,d cgqr eksVk mnkgj.k rks ;gh gS fd L=h cPpk iSnk djs] mlds ikyus&iklsus esa vius thouds csgrjhu o"kZ [kpZ djs vkSj cPpk firk ds [kkrsa esa p<+ tkrk gSaAS gekjk dkuwu Hkh firk dks cPps dk ^LokHkkfod laj{k.k* crkrk gSA L=h dks ughaA nwljk mnkgj.k] L=h ,d ?kj esa tUe ysrh gS 15&20 lky ogka [kVrh gS- mls fookg ds lkFk bl ?kj ls csn[ky dj fn;k tkrk gS vkSj ftl ?kj esa og tkrh gS] ogka mlds lkjs dke ifr ds [kkrsa esa p<+rs gSA vkSj ;g vkneh cguksa dk Hkh cgqr lkfgLlk igys gh gM+i pqdk gSA ftl le; yM+fd;ksa ls uQjr dh tk jgh Fkh] csVksa dks nqykjk tk jgk FkkA tc yM+fd;ka ?kj esa [kVrh Fkha] ;g i<+rk Fkk vkSj mudk cuk;k [kkuk [kkrk FkkA og ?kj esa ,d ;qojkt dh rjg jgrk FkkA mls nw/k vkSj Qy feyrs FksA mls eagxh ls eagxh vkSj Åph ls Åaph f'k{kk nh xbZA tc yM+fd;ka firk ds ?kj esa csxkj dj jgh Fkh rks og viuk fodkl dj jgk Fkk] ubZ&ubZ fuiwkZRka, gkfly dj jgk FkkA vxj lHkh cPpksa dks leku iks"k.k feyrk Fks D;k bl ;qojkt ds fo'ks"kkf/kdkjh esa dqN dVkSrh u gksrhA bl ;qojkt dh iRuh fnu jkr blds ?kj esa [kVrh gS vkSj ;g ?kj ds flrkjsa dh rjg pedrk gSA okg D;k O;oLFkk gSa\ vkSjrsa [kVs vkSj enZ ;'k dek,] drkZ gksus dk naHk ikys vkSj xky ctkrs ?kwesaA bl rjg cgqr ls ekeyksa esa L=h dk yxHkx iwjk thou gh mlls Nhu fy;k tkrkgSA ogthou Hkj ,d O;fDr ds :i esa vius dks ugha ns[k ikrhA ;s efgyk,a mu [knku etnwjksa dh rjg gSa- ftUgsa [knkuj esa mrkj fn;k x;k ysfdu jftLVj esa ftudkdksbZ uke ugha gSA tks nq?kVZuk esa ekjs tkus ij fxurh esa Hhk ugh vkrsA ;gka rd fd os [knkuksa esa dke djus d ckotwn [knku etnwj ugha gSA

    [knku etnwjksa esas Hkh etnwj vkSjr dk thou iq:"k etnwjls fHkUu gSA os xHkZ /kkj.k djrh gSa- cPpksa dks tUe Hkh nsrh gSA os egkokjh ds fnuksa esa Hkh dke djrh gSa] Hkkjh dkeA os [knku esa mrjus ls igys cPpksa dh dksbZ O;oLFk djrh gSa] [kkuk idkrh gSA Bsdsnkj lkfgr vusd ^cqjh utjksa* dk lkeuk mls djukiM+rk gSA mldk ;kSu&mRihM+u Hkh gks ldrk gSa jkr dks 'kjkc ihdjmldk ifr mls ihV Hkh ldrk gSA bl rjg ;g vkSjr vis{kd`r ^vf/kd* [krjs mBkrh gSA vf/kd dke djrh gS cnysa esa vk/kk osru ikrh gS vkSjvius fy, le; dHkh ugha ikrhA Je dk voewY;u Hkh le; ds ?kksVs dks fn[kkrk gSA vxj etnwj 8 ?kaVs dke djrk gS rks vkSjjr etnwj ?kj lfgr 16 ?k.Vsa dke djrh gS cnys esa vk/kk osru ikrh gS ;kfu mlds le; dk ?kkVk nqgjk gSA

    [knku etnwj efgykvksa ls ysdj mPp f'kf{kr vkSj ukSDjh is'kk efgykrd vusd lekurk,a gS] fHkUurk Hkh gSa] ,d vkSjr pkgs og nfyr gS ;k etnwj [ksrksa esa dke djus okyh gS] f'kf{kr gS ;k fuj{kj gSa] lk/ku lEiUu gS ;k xjhc gS] xkao esa jgus okyh gS ;k 'kgjesa& gj gkyr esas mlds dke dk voeY;u gkskr gSA dke dk ;g voewY;u L=h ek= ds voewY;u ls tqM+kgS vkSjgj L=h dks nwjs dh bPNkuqlkj thgou thuk iM+rkgSA ;kfu fupys ntsZ dk izk.kh vkSj ijk/khu izk.khA bl rjg [kjkc ls [kjkc gkykr esa Hkh xj ,d iq:"k dks 60 lky dh mez esa 35 lky ^vius rkSj ij ;k lkekftd izk.kh ds rkSj ij thus ds fy, feyrs gS rks vkSjr dks eqf'dy ls thus ds fy, eqf'dy ls 5 lky feyrs gS vkSj vDlj ;g le; Hhk og fdlh rjg ls pqjkrh gSA

    vxj dksbZ vkSjr bl nq"pdz dks rksM+dj ckgj fudyrh gS rks og cgqr fugRFkh gSA lcls igys mls ,d lnesa dk lkeuk djuk iM+rk gSA vius ledkyhuksa ds chp mls ,d Hk;kog vdsysiu dk lkeuk djuk iMrk gSA mlds vuqHko dh nqfu;k vyx gS] mldh Hkk'kk vyx gSa] mldh laosnuk,a vkSj cks/k vyx gS vkSj laiszs"k.k dk;e djuk csgn pqukSrhiw.kZ dke gSA ,slh L=h ls lHkh ijEijkxr lkSHkkX; Nhu fy, tkrs gS ;k og [kqn gh mUgsa NksdM nsrrh gSA bu lkSHkkX;ksa dks NksM+uk mld fy, vifjgk;Z gks tkrk gSA ;g Lok/khurk dh fn'kk esa mdls igys dne ls tqM+h iwoZ'krZ gSA fQjlekt bl vkSj dks dbZ rjg ls fu'kkuk cukrk gSA bl ckr dsks vkile> ldrs gSa D;ksfda ijEijkrksM+us okyksa ds izfr lekt cgqr funZ;h gksrk gSA [kkldj vxjog L=h gS rksA fdUrq ;g ckr t:j gS fd vkRefodkl ds lanHkZ esa ijEijk rksM+us dh tSlh vifjgk;ZrkL=h dslkeus gksrh gS oSlh iq:"kksa ds lkeus ughaA t;a'kadj izlkn ;k izsepan vius Hkjs&iwjs dqVqEc d chp eqf[k;k dh rjg jgrs gq, jpukdkjcu ldrs gSA mudk oa'k pyrk jgrk gSA ,d lnx`gLFk dh rj os le; ij [kkuk [kkrs gSa] ugkrs gSa vkSjR;kSgkjeukrs gSaA csfV;ka fonk djrs gSa vkSjcsVksa dks ukSdfj;ksa ds fy, rS;kj djrs gSa] os iRuh ds vykok fdlh vU; L=h ls Hkh laca/k j[krs gS vkSjmud ikjEifjd ^lkSHkkX;* ¼liksVZ flLVe½  ij dksbZ vUrj ugh iM+rk vkSj ,d L=h dks f'k{kk ikus ds fy, gh vius reke lkSHkkX; NksM+us iM+rs gSA ^ckgj dh nqfu;k* mls 'k=qrk ls ns[krh gS vkSj mls vusd fNih&[kqyh vfXuijh{kkvksa ls xqtjuk iM+rk gSA D;k fcaMeuk gS fd vius euq";Ro dks izekf.kr djus ds fy, L=h dks miyC/k ekuoh; thou NksM+uk iM+rk gSA] mls vdsys gh nqfu;k ls yksgk ysuk iM+rk gSA

    bl ckgj dh nqfu;k esa i{k vkSj foi{k nksuks r; gks pqds gSa] muds iSekus vkSj dlkSfV;ka r; gks pqdh gSA U;k; vkSj vU;k; dh vo/kkj.kk,a r; gks pqdh gSaA U;k; vkSj vU;k; dh vo/kkj.kk,a r; gks pqdh gSa] dk;Zuhfr vkSj j.kuhfr r; gks pqdh gSaA bl nqfu;k esa vius le; dsl kFkvanj vkus dh dksf'k'kdjrh L=h ,d ,sfrgkfld vdsykiu vkSj lEiz"k.k dh nqfuZokj bPNk fy, gq, viuk lekt [kkstrh gSA mldk ;g vdsykiu okaNuh; uga gSA ;g vifjgk;Z gSa lp dk tks dksuk bl L=h ds ikl gS mlds iks"K.k vkSjiqf"V ds fy, gS] ml lp dks ^;q;qRlq* cukus ds fy, gSa] mls ,sls fopkjksa] fo'ys"k.k vkSj la?k"kksZ dh i`"BHkwfe ij LFkkfir djus ds fy, gS fd og fugR;k u jgsA U;k; ds i{k esa [kM+s fe=ksa ds ik lp dk tks dksuk gS] mlls lb ^lp* ds varlw=Z tqM+rs gSA ogka euq"r;rk dks iqu% vftZ djus dk ,d xgu vk/kkj ekStwng SA ysfdu ;g ,d visf{kr txg gSA ;g lcls cqfu;knh vkSjlcls iqjkuh nq?KZVuk dh dguk pkfg,;s mRihM+u dh txg gSA fe=ksa ds ikl ;g fodYi gS fd os r; dh xbZ nqfu;k ds vanj gh r; dh tk pqdh U;k; dh ;k lekurk dh vo/kkj.kk ls dke pyk ysaA fL=;ksa ds ikl ;g fodYiugha gSA r; dh tk pqdh nqfu;k esa ?kqlus ds cnys mls rksM+us dh vifjgk;Zrk fQj muds lkeus gsA vDlj le; ds ?kkVs dsk fL=;ksa dh v{kerk vkSj v;ksX;rk ds :i esa ns[kk tkrk gS- D;ksafd mlesa fNis mRihM+usd vkSj mlds izfrdkj dh {kerk ugha ns[kh tkrhSA

    fL=;ka vc rd xf.kr esa detksj jgh gSA vc os fglkc fdrkc lh[k jgh gSA esjs tSlh ckoyh L=h dqN fglkc fdrkc dj ldrh gS rks lHkh fl+;ka dj ldrh gSA eSa ftl cgh dk ,d i=k;gka fudky dj ykbZ gwa] os iwjh cgh fudky dj yk;sxh vkSj fQj nks uEcj ds [kkrs can djus iM+sxsA vkus okyh 'krkCnh vkSj lglzkCnh esa efgyk,a xf.kr esa detksj ugha jgsxhA

    ;g fVIi.hk eSaus 1997 ds twu eghus esa fy[kh FkhA ml le; esjh mez 43 lky Fkh vkSjeSA igyh ckj vdsyh ,d 'kgj esa 10&a15 fnu jgus ds fy, xbZ Fkh- og Hkh MkWDVj ds ,d fyf[kr uqL[ks ds dkj.kA tc eSa ;g fVIi.kh fy[k jgh Fkh] mUgh fnuksa jkr dks Qksu djds ykSVrs le; esjs lkFkNsM[kkuh dh ,dokjnkr gqbZ] og yM+dk mez esa eq.ls de ls de 10&15 lky NksVk FkkA vki bl lekt esa esjk LFkku r;djrs gS\ tcfd eSa is'k sls ^lEekfur* v/;kfidk gwa vkSjesjs cky iwjh rjg lQsn gks pqds gSA

- Shubha

High Time !!

In yet another case of honour killing, villagers allegedly murdered a young man in the presence of the police when he had come to take back his newly-wed wife belonging to the same sub-caste in Haryana’s Jind district.

The so called caste panchayat announced and implemented a social boycott of the boy’s family. Such incidents of heinous cruelty against young couples who dare to marry according to their choice have become common in Haryana. In June 2007, the bodies of a young couple, Manoj and Babli, were recovered from a canal in Kaithal district after they were murdered and thrown into the canal by relatives of the girl. A married couple, Rampal and Sonia, were forced by the Panchayat to live as brother and sister since they belonged to the same Gotra

Caste Panchayats or Khaps behave like a dictator; these are not elected panchayats, they take the law into their own hands and issue decrees arbitrarily. Caste panchayats pose a challenge both to the parliamentary processes and judicial structures. These have no legal standing, yet they function with impunity, backed by the narrow caste identity politics

The views of the authorities at various levels on the question of "honour" were not very different from that of the community. It was evident from the various testimonies that the State administrations were not only indifferent, but also partisan.

Boys and girls are being targeted so that none dares to breach the barriers of castes and communities. Significantly, in the majority of cases it is the economically and socially dominant castes that organize, instigate and abet such acts of retribution.

Caste panchayats have come to play an increasingly important role in Haryana and elsewhere, especially in situations where political sponsorship also exists. Central to the theme of honour and violence is the subordinate position of girls and women in all castes and communities. A woman's chastity is the "honour" of the community and she has no sovereign right over at any point of her life.